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Topic: Memorial Service for an Old Friend
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Crow Woman
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posted June 25, 2008 02:13 AM
ha ha... made ya look, didn't I
Yep, this weekend I will be having a memorial service for a friend who has been with me for 45 years. She has always been on top of things and always a familiar face to me, sometimes comforting, sometimes scary, sometimes beautiful, but never left me, no matter how hard times got.
But come monday morning, she will be forever changed.
If you have heard the rumors, yes it is true... I have cancer. On monday, they will start cutting away at my face, until all the cancer is removed as long as they can get it all. Then they will immediately go through the tedious task of reconstructing a new face for me. Possible implants and skin stretching and the whole 9 yards. It will be at least a 3 hour operation.
Hopefully, I will be the exception to what all the research has led me to, like permanent disfigurement, and hopefully I will come out looking somewhat normal. Fingers crossed.
But for now, I will say so long to that face that has always looked back at me and get ready for the new look of the Ole Crow. Maybe the coyotes won't recognize me anymore and I will have an edge when I'm allowed back out hunting. Ya never know Maybe I'll look like Jessica Simpson or Angelina or how about Farrah Fawcette... she must be 200 by now and still looks gorgeous!
So light a candle, burn some sage or have a moment of silence this weekend, for the face of The Old Crow is leaving the nest!
-------------------- Sheri L Baity
Lord, Please give me peace, because if you give me strength, I might beat someone to death!
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Tim Behle
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posted June 25, 2008 04:16 AM
As long as you don't end up looking like Higgins, you should be fine!
I wish you all the best, and certainly will keep you in my thoughts this weekend.
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Okanagan
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posted June 25, 2008 05:36 AM
Sheri, will be praying for you.
In a much less serious surgery a few years ago, when they reamed out my eye sockets and put my eyes back in place after severe Grave's disease, the doc asked me for a photo of my face taken before my disfigurement. He took it into the operating room with him and used it as a guide for positioning my eyes. I gave him a photo of Tom Cruise.
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DAA
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posted June 25, 2008 05:51 AM
I'll be thinking good thoughts for you Sheri.
- DAA
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George Ackley
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posted June 25, 2008 07:41 AM
Sheri, will be praying for you. And i am not that far away , so if there anything you need call me ..
215- 203-0775 Its ok to call now ,, i have explained to my wife who you are..
you my not remember that you called me one time,,
boy did i have some explaning to do when i got home
first thing she said was , WHO IS SHERI FROM THE MT.
If you need anything make the call
George & Diana
PS I like to know what hospital you going to,,
rem223pa@aol.com [ June 25, 2008, 07:44 AM: Message edited by: George Ackley ]
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Leonard
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posted June 25, 2008 09:15 AM
Hi Sheri,
Actually, this is good news! I'm glad to hear that it is finally happening, and you don't have to wait any longer.
Keep us informed, we will be praying for you.
Good hunting. LB
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Lungbuster
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posted June 25, 2008 01:34 PM
Good Luck Sheri,
My Aunt had the same thing done and her looks didnt change that much. I believe she had the surgery in Hershey, but I'm not sure.....
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Locohead
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posted June 25, 2008 01:34 PM
Absolutely, we will. Sheri, I just read this post and even before reading the replies, I went upstairs to share with my wife. She almost went into tears. We will hold hands this evening as a family and pray for you! ![[Smile]](smile.gif)
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Crow Woman
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posted June 25, 2008 02:41 PM
Thanks Everyone... Prayers are one of my favorite thing to receive
Leonard, it turns out that I only had to have the surgeon's money up front. The rest, I will cross that bridge when I get to it.
Ya know how they mark you now in the hospital so that they don't cut in the wrong area? Well, I think, when they are not looking, I will throw in a few dozen extra marks, like a rack lift, tummy tuck, lyposuction... etc You know, the bare essentials... That way, if I can't stand to look at my face anymore, I will love my new body!
I'll have my daughter keep ya posted. I think I'll be down for a little while.
-------------------- Sheri L Baity
Lord, Please give me peace, because if you give me strength, I might beat someone to death!
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Cdog911
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posted June 25, 2008 03:27 PM
Ya know Sheri,
If your looks had anything to do with whether or not I consider you a friend, I'd have dumped this bunch of grizzled ol' desert rats a long time ago. LOL
My thoughts will be with you. The important thing is that you're dealing with it and looking toward getting better. The blessing is that your prognosis is good. Let us know how successful everything goes.
-------------------- I am only one. But still, I am one. I cannot do everything, but still, I can do something; and, because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do.
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Doug
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posted June 25, 2008 03:30 PM
Sheri, Think of it as a face lift. We'll keep you in our prayers. Doug
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Crow Woman
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posted June 26, 2008 04:33 AM
Ya'll will get a kick out of this... I had a dream last night.
The surgeon is standing there putting me back together and then he holds up a femor(sp?) and asked, "Does anybody no where this goes?" I remember laying there thinking, "Now what in the H*ll does my leg bone have anything to do with MY surgery??!!??" and then my next question was, "Why in the H*ll did I prepay?"
oooOOOoooo... the mind is a dangerous thing when you have idle time ![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)
-------------------- Sheri L Baity
Lord, Please give me peace, because if you give me strength, I might beat someone to death!
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onecoyote
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posted June 29, 2008 01:27 PM
Crow Woman, I am not one for words, only feelings. You get better soon. The coyotes well be waiting, so well all your friends and God knows you have alot of them....God bless.
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Crow Woman
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posted June 29, 2008 02:50 PM
Thanks Danny and Everyone!
The countdown has started. I'm doing pretty good today. I have a Get R'Done attitude.
Tonight I pray that they get all the cancer, I don't lose an eye and I don't lose any bone. The rest, I will just pray for acceptance, that I can accept what I will look like.
-------------------- Sheri L Baity
Lord, Please give me peace, because if you give me strength, I might beat someone to death!
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MULE
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posted June 29, 2008 03:56 PM
Damn,
Sorry to hear that Crow Woman.
Hang in there gal
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Buckwheat
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posted June 29, 2008 04:25 PM
Sheri My wife and I will be praying for you tonight. We will be asking that everything you are hoping for is granted. Get R'Done girl I like that. Ernie
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Leonard
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posted June 29, 2008 04:32 PM
Sheri, there must be somebody that can check in here and provide a little news, when you can't?
Good hunting. LB
-------------------- EL BEE Knows It All and Done It All. Don't piss me off!
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bucksnort
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posted June 29, 2008 05:40 PM
Sheri, Please have your daughter post updates until you can. As you are aware, our thoughts and prayers are with you for a successful surgery.
Take care.
Chris Kennedy
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Crow Woman
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posted June 29, 2008 08:36 PM
Can't sleep... gotta get up in 5 hours... geez
Thank You Everyone!
Leonard... if you get this post soon. My current email addie is sheribaity@yahoo.com If you want to email me your phone number, I will put it on my daughter's list to call tomorrow afterwards. I don't have your number anymore. Then you can let everyone know.
ok... gonna try and shut my eyes again. [ June 29, 2008, 08:37 PM: Message edited by: Crow Woman ]
-------------------- Sheri L Baity
Lord, Please give me peace, because if you give me strength, I might beat someone to death!
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KevinKKaller
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posted June 29, 2008 09:22 PM
just got on the puter and read your post . I Hope all goes as planed and you come out looking like FF I know you arnt a dingaling like the others you named! Good Luk Kevin
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Kokopelli
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posted June 30, 2008 12:38 AM
Sheri; I hope that all goes well today for you. Have Raven give us an update when she gets a chance.
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Leonard
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posted June 30, 2008 09:38 AM
Well, I probably saw Sheri's post too late, but I responded. Hope.
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Crow Woman
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posted June 30, 2008 04:32 PM
wooooo hoooooo.... I'm pretty darned drugged up so let me keep this shrot and sweet for now... I'm cancer free@@@@@@@@
I'll post more tomorrow when I wak eup
-------------------- Sheri L Baity
Lord, Please give me peace, because if you give me strength, I might beat someone to death!
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Leonard
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posted June 30, 2008 05:10 PM
I just got off the phone with Sheri.
Yeah, she's higher than a kite, but coherent. The Surgeon apparently got all the bad tissue and left intact all bone structure and muscles, eye is fine. She hopes that her Angelina Joulie(sp) lips are permanent, but it's possible the swelling will eventually go down.
She sounds upbeat and relieved. Apparently, prayer worked, best possible outcome!
Good hunting. LB
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Tim Behle
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posted June 30, 2008 05:45 PM
Speaking of Angelina Jolie, have you noticed that she hasn't been thrown out of a Motel for having Loud and multiple orgasms, since she divorced Billy Bob?
She must have married Brad Pitt for his money, cause he sure ain't ringing her bell like Billy Bob Did !
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